A “Symphony of Your Life” blog with Mark Hardcastle
I was one of those who kept running that day. Ironically, I feel like I was one of those who failed. Why would I say that?
My buddy Jeff, running right beside me, was one of those who dropped out.
Of course I failed.
Would I have been able to go another full mile? That’s something I’ll never know with certainty. What I do know is that I had enough to go another 3 or 4 steps. And hopefully another 3 or 4 beyond that. On another day, in another time or place I’d have reached out to Jeff and helped him along for those first few steps, then the next, until hopefully he got his second wind and would be able to keep going on his own. But that day I didn’t.
Why not? Two reasons. First, I was so consumed with my own burning lungs that I wasn’t looking around for anyone who might be losing steam. Second, Jeff didn’t tell me. Had either of those realities not been true I’d have reached out and grabbed him and pulled him along.
By continuing to run I got what the Jumpmasters wanted me to get that day. By watching Jeff drop out I got something else.
When Fortune starts doling out her challenges we need to think more deeply.
Are your lungs burning today? Of course they are. You’re running hard, living life, doing what you were put here to do.
If your resources are stretched, reach out. Do you have mentors a phone call away? Partners in your networking group who are more experienced? Advisers who’ve been where you are? Call them. They’ll help you keep going until you get your second wind and can go again on your own.
If, on the other hand, these are the good times for you and you’re hitting on all cylinders, take a look around. There’s somebody in your sphere who’s challenged and can use your wisdom. You have the ability to make a difference in a colleague’s life. Make it. Look up. Reach out. Bring him or her along.
In all cases mental strength rules. It’s always mind over matter. You can keep going as long as you need to. You just need to know you can. The real question, as is the case so often in life, is “how?”. Can you go it alone? Should you? Can you help somebody else? Will you?
I know you can. I hope you will.
The Symphony of Your Life